Seriously, why do people like to point fingers at each other and say it straight into their face ” U are wrong and I am right ” in the most hurtful and irritating way possible. I mean, what ever happened to consideration and moderation when it comes to human emotions? What is the whole point of making that statement to put that person down to a level 10 notches below u and command the poor guy to eat all that shit accept all that criticism with an open mind and heart, where sometimes even the most patient and tolerant person might even start to feel angry and irritated.

I’m not talking about relationships at this moment, i mean, it’s normal for couples to point out each other’s flaws ( in the most diplomatic way, of course) to better ourselves. Then again, to think of it, it’s actually quite normal for ppl to point these things out when they care for the person and they want each other to better themselves. The fact that u tell that person off is when u care and think for that person, and u want that person u care about to better themselves. It’s normal right, u see a good fren, going the wrong way, deviated from the direction he shud be taking in life, takkan u wanna see him take the wrong steps and do the wrong things right ? Of course, sometimes, u need to be strong and harsh on ur words, to get the msg into that numbskull but then, say it with the sincerity so that the person feels that u actually care. NOT PUT PPL DOWN WITH WORDS AND EXPECT U TO DECIPHER THEIR SO DEEP AND OH SO HURTFUL WORDS.

SO PLEASE, the next time u EVER point a finger at someone and say that he/she is wrong, SAY it with a considerable amount of consideration, enough to send the message across, but with CARE and THOUGHTS on how that person would feel after being told off and put down so low until he/she feels like hell wtf. Care for that person like u actually mean it, dun care just for the sake of caring. If u REALLY mean it, no matter how harsh u tell someone off, using the right words and the right approach, one will never feel as though he’s being under constant attack.

Sorry for the emo post on a Tius-Day, just ranting on whatever has happened earlier today.

Who knows, at the end of the day, things will just turn out alright

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